Going through a divorce is one of the most emotional experiences. Depending on the nitty-gritty of your situation or case a divorce proceeding can be a smooth affair or a catastrophe. Either way, it can take a toll on one’s mental well-being. Dating sounds like a great idea at such a vulnerable time. One is tempted to get out and find that comfort in the company of that special person.
However, enticing the idea may be, to refrain from dating during an ongoing divorce lawsuit is the recommendation from divorce and /or family law attorneys. Dating can affect your case negatively thereby making your chances of smoother and faster divorce a prolonged matter.
Here are some points to ponder before you start to date during an ongoing divorce proceeding.
- Your own well-being might get affected. Undergoing divorce is a very stressful occurrence as you are juggling between work, court hearings and child care. Depending on the particulars of your case, it may be a challenging divorce proceeding. All this might influence your thinking ability in a way that is counterproductive. Be patient, think it through and more importantly do not rush into a new relationship. Your mind needs time to heal from the turbulent relationship.
- Knowledge of State laws: This may have some bearing: Dating before your divorce is finalized might be considered as adultery in some states. To maximize your chances for a positive outcome seek expert legal guidance from an experienced attorney. Find an attorney or a law firm that has a dedicated team of attorneys who are well conversant with family law.
- Final settlement implications: If your divorce case goes into litigation, be cautious and do not indulge in dating while the proceeding is ongoing. Your ex-partner and his/her attorney can use your new relationship in a way that could seriously impact your case settlement. The court may not take very kindly to your new association if it comes up. It can jeopardize your chances of getting a favorable verdict.
- Effect on the alimony: If you are seeking alimony in your divorce then be advised that dating will definitely impact adversely. Your ex-partner will know that you have someone to turn to after the divorce is finalized. It may make them feel sour and make matters a little murky. They may not agree to your terms of alimony and complicate matters further.
- Implications on child care and their welfare: Your new relationship might have severe implications on your child care arrangement plans once your divorce is final. Your ex-partner might feel threatened by the new person. This could lead to potential changes in your visitation rights or influence the child custody matter in the future. Another aspect that cannot be ignored by the parents is the effect dating might have on your children. They may be already struggling with your separation and the presence of a new person can add to that stress. This, in turn, can cause serious long term damage in your relationship with your children. So, stop and think before you decide to date.
The right legal advice and guidance can assist you or your loved ones to get through their rough times in a seamless manner. With our team of professional and expert family law attorneys, specializing in divorce, you need not look any further. They will work with empathy as they understand how taxing a divorce can be. Do not wait, get the right people and the right advice, connect with us on (888) 656-7675 and ask for a free consultation.
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